Girl! Get that Married Man Out Your Bed!

Sister!  Do you really think that man is going to leave his wife for you?   He has been telling you for weeks, months and years how jacked up she is and how he just needs time?

You have done everything ACCEPT stand on your head for this man. You have allowed him to abuse you sexually, emotionally, financially and more importantly, spiritually. 

Before we go any further, let me show you a picture right now of what YOU REALLY deserve RIGHT NOW!!
NOTHING LESS!!

Every Holiday you are alone and overwhelmed with anxiety as he spends time with his wife and family while you sit at home desperately feeling that soon he is going FINALLY wake up and discover what an awesome sex partner.....oops! I meant to say woman you are! Come on now, you know you think in the back of your mind that your wild, kinky, ungodly and perverted sex is going to cast that spell on him. Has it yet? He is still using you as often as he likes and going home to his family.

I want you to proceed with caution! I have to give it to you straight my Sister Girl. God does not want this for your life!

Playing the harlot for that selfish piece of a man is not going to win him over to you. He is not yours Boo! I said Boo, because that is what your life will become if you keep wishing on a star...Boo Hoo!! Your heart is going to keep crying and whining for love until you stop playing games with yourself and someone elses husband! This man does not love you! You are his play thang! The proof is in the pudding! Where is he going to be this Holiday Season Boo? Not with you!

Every time you lay with that woman's husband, you are playing Russian Roulette with your eternal life!   It is this fact that got me out of bed with men that were not my husband! If God called you out of that fine body (so you may think) that you are using right now to seduce another woman's husband, where do you really think you are going to spend eternity?

I know you are making money, you are fine, you are articulate, you are draped in the finest that money can buy.  You are successful, BUT! You are still thirsty for love. You are still thirsty for honor, respect and fidelity from a man that will cherish you.  I was there.  I was so thirsty for love and did not even realize it until I found myself away from the presence of God.  Had the man, but I no longer had God's peace and joy reigning in my spirit.  I was miserable AND still thirsty!

Sister, you are kidding yourself if you think all that you have, and that does include your well endowed physical assets, is going to win over that man you are cheating with.  Don't let your EGO fool you.  Sister, you lack integrity! You have no integrity if you do not respect and honor what God honors, marriage!!! 

You deserve your own man! They will ALL tell you how they knew when they were walking down the aisle that it was a mistake. Well hey! They had time between the walk down the aisle and the preacher pronouncing them husband and wife for him to 'MAN UP' and book up!!   Do you feel me?   This sad sob story is part of the game to justify the reason he is cheating with you and sorry, but likely someone else too!

You say, "But I love him!"   NO BOO! You do not love him, you LUST him? How can you REALLY convince yourself that you love a man that has made a vow to God to cherish and love another woman until death do them apart?   How can you REALLY convince yourself that you are in love with a man that secretly uses your body for his physical release and pleasure knowing you want him for yourself, AND he knows in his heart he does not want you BOO! Come on! 

You say, "The sex is great!" No Boo Boo! GOD IS GREAT!

GIRL! LEAVE THAT MAN ALONE!  Stop kidding yourself and more importantly risking your eternal life being seperated from God.  For What reason?  Sex, lust and lies from and with a weak man that cannot "man up" to keep his covenant with God?

You are better than a quick roll in the hey! YES YOU ARE! Stop acting desperate! You want love just like everyone else walking the planet, BUT you will not find it laying with another woman's husband. You will not! Stop playing games with yourself and acting like a rat! Why a rat? Because they will settle for crumbs, garbage or anything they can find to eat that is someone elses food crumbs.
God loves you my Sister.  When I fell into sexual sin he heard my cry.....He will hear yours too when you make up your mind to stop the madness.  You are not happy and make NO mistake about it, you deserve God's best, NOT crumbs! 

Get rid of that BOZO and ask God for the
strength to wait on YOUR Boaz! 
If you don't know who Boaz is,
go and do a Bible study to find out.  Here is a hint, his
story can be found in the Book of Ruth.

I've been there and brought the T-SHIRT............





1 comment:

  1. I keep reading and reading and reading articles like this to help me, but this one hit it. It really hit it. I could cry. Thank you so much. Thank you.

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